K-Shibari is a direction of Shibari where the goal of the sessions is to understand personalities and, based on them, to select and apply K to achieve peak pleasure points.
By fulfilling the inner needs of the dark side of the upbringing, during the session we help to free ourselves from the need to sometimes manifest ‘negatively’ in society.
An example: during puberty, a boy was locked up at home, and under lock and key he fantasised and experienced peak arousals, the neural connection was reinforced by myelin and did not disappear, but remained deep within and sometimes manifests itself as an extreme form of introversion in an unconscious search for those long-forgotten dopamine surges and the realisation of those fantasies and expectations.
Now, in order to experience peaks and inner satisfaction, it is necessary to create similar conditions for being in a confined state.
The second example: a girl was hit in the face by her parents when they dressed her for kindergarten to stand up straight - endorphin was released, and the girl formed a clear neural connection: hitting the face = extraordinary pleasure, few of her men will understand her need, and professional fulfilment is rare, but it is possible.
The third example: when a baby was crying and screaming, it was swaddled and calmed down - now the child has grown up and can dig deep into itself and look for the reason for its love of bondage, but now it cannot be removed, it is deeply rooted and can be satisfied.
And one of the most common problematic needs:
to dominate and subjugate can be realised during a role-playing game or session, thus the need to usurp excessively in the team, with others and loved ones is levelled out.
As for the beginning of the K-Shibari session, Navashi learns the model during the first introductory bonding: which Ks work how. For example, for ~70% of women, hair is a sensory area that allows you to influence states, Mjo, you may have a question: ‘How does it work?’ - I will answer: it depends on the stage of hair grabbing and the grip itself, as well as on the characteristics of Mjo, but in general, I can identify several effects, one of which is the letting go of control, of course, not uncontrolled letting go.
And so, having learnt it in K-Shibari, we make a plan for the session and then implement it.
Now you know a little about K, for information about the session, please request a pdf presentation on Telegram, WA)
