the process of gentle and gentle tying of muscles relaxes not only the body, but also the brain, the energy spent on control of hands, feet, eyes, body control is suddenly released for contemplation of oneself and one's states, it is as pleasant as possible (achieved in the ropes of a master who knows the elements of tantra तन्त्र).

during a K-Shibari session the energy free from body control stays with you, thus the effect of meditation, in particular the stopping of thought flow, and sometimes subspace is achieved much faster

during a session with partner, the tied person observes him/herself in the silence of the mind and reaches new levels of pleasure, up to transcendental states.

cognition of the self as one of the highest missions of man, discovering the experience of letting go of control over the body you get to know yourself better, you become interested in studying the sensations of yourself in the body, observing instinctive and realised responses; for advanced people Dhyana meditation ध्यान .

- an advantage over other men,

- you learn unique techniques and knowledge that 99.9% of the male population of the Earth does not possess: how to control the process of playing with shibari ropes, voice, breathing, gaze, movements, preparation, fixation. You get a lot of emotions and pleasures, as well as give them.

- you get previously unexplored shades of pleasure: an increased degree of passion, in the conditions of silence of the mind,

- you play with her - it's nice when a partner knows how to play, now you have something that excites, intrigues, inspires a woman.

- you give previously unexplored feelings of "nothing needs to be decided" in the aura of your power, 

- you understand the technology of creating an atmosphere of trust, tenderness and care.

For men, the powerful effect is to feel in control of her, to play with her attractive body and to get her in the right mood in which she opens up emotionally and sensually.

The powerful effect will be in any case, but in order to go deep before proceeding to K-Shibari it is necessary to create conditions of safety and trust for the partner. How to create and hold them we pass in our classes. The programme is available on request on telegram telegram

You will have access to the knowledge of:

1. How to create unforgettable sessions,

2. How to reduce the influence of women's emotions on your states.

3. How to be less obsequious.

You'll be able to reinforce:

1. Inner calmness/strength, as a result of a better understanding of the manifestation of female instincts, and behaviour dictated by hormones. 

2. Ability to lead in a game in which you are a cat and she is a mouse.

Woman next to the master:

1. studies herself. Experiences deep states up to subspace.

2. Feels the game of a man who ignites the fire in her not 5-10 minutes, but 15-90.

3. Goes beyond the usual boundaries through her own relaxation and level of trust. 

4. Growing.

To take a step towards possessing this knowledge and skill write to us on telegram

- stop the thought stream for the duration of the session,

- hand over control to a master who can take it up to "total",

- to relax by covering a large volume of muscles with ropes - 8 ropes of 4 metres each - the whole body relaxes down to the mind and it will have no choice,

- on demand helps to "reboot", to move to new stages of life

- access new energy,

- an opportunity to walk out your dark side,

- get rid of long-standing desires (if there were),

- activate kundalini energy.

One of the reviews:

"I thought there would be little pleasure and it would be relaxation through pain.

What was my surprise that the whole process was very pleasant!

After a few minutes it's like my body is weightless. From the fact that it's bound on the contrary, you feel freedom. You fly far, far away) 

I am flying, and next to my body is a man who is doing everything to make me feel even more pleasurable.

It's not about S&M at all, it's about service and pleasure in its purest form. It's just a question of trust."

The trained model experiences states of depth and freedom from 1 to 10, where "level 1" is the easiest and is a pleasant experience like a deep 4 hand massage for full body relaxation. 

And the deepest level of subspace, available to Mjo's who have the skills to relax the necessary muscles and are able to trust Nawashi 100%.

Models who have lived the subspace describe it this way: 

"I was seconds away from the highest point of female pleasure when I stood tied up. I was dizzy, my face was streaming and I felt like I was being roasted in a cauldron. It was very strong! It's a very vivid moment! It's a very vivid emotion that you experience!

Then when we moved to the parterre (tying on the floor), I started to relax more and go deeper. That is, I felt that there was an action going on around me that was taking me more and more into myself, into my sensations. It's a strong feeling that relaxes you and excites and excites you. The range of emotions from relaxation to peak, i.e. it's almost peak orgasm and total relaxation, where you don't fall asleep but you fall through. It feels like 'Wow'!"

"...An absolute sense of protection and safety. Immersion in the purity of being. Inhibitions are lifted, the body lets go of accumulated blocks, opening up to a new possibility of simply being and enjoying the here and now."

Subspace - to understand literally: sub - lower, subordinate; space - space. Subspace is the space of the lower.

You like to be in the circle of a strong man who solves problems and bears responsibility, or you are hunting for such a man, then mastering the skills of K-Shibari you will be special in his world, the one who does extraordinary things, creates scenarios and brings into his life amazing games, pictures, melodies, flavours - relaxes him. And men-authors of their lives appreciate this, and not only beauty, because the gloss (doll next to him) need only those who try to look better than he is in reality, and a real man appreciates the one who is next to him is ready and can do a lot: at the right moment to support, to play along, to "give ammunition", to relax, to help heal wounds, together to create and get results.

To be special, the only one for a strong man is the privilege of the best, the privilege of queens. 

By learning K-Shibari you will learn the subtleties that will allow you to give him what no other woman can give him. 

On top of all that, you will give him relaxation:

Many in his place from stresses and strains relax in a bathhouse with alcohol, some with whores, drugs, perhaps your man does not do this (or do), but the need to relax is present of the same strength. 

That's what's stronger than those remedies:

K-Shibari is a set of techniques that produce deep relaxation.

By restricting limb mobility and blindfolding the mind from total control of the environment, we leave it no choice and it relaxes. 

Such gifts are deserved by the best of men and appreciated by the best too.

During the session:

- deprivation ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- relaxation exercises ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- opportunity to hand over control to the master ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- multifaceted experiences of pleasures ⭐️⭐️⭐️

- stopping thought flow from ⭐️⭐️⭐️ to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Grade K level from ⭐️⭐️⭐️ to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- number of ropes used by the master 3-5.

- blindfold ✅

Duration 90 minutes, cost 100 usd, consists of stages, which are described in the presentation - request in Telegram

For those who already know that K-Shibari is something that has been wanting to find for a long time and finally found.

During the session:

- pleasure levels from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- deprivations from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- relaxation exercises from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- the opportunity to hand over control to the master from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- multifaceted experiences of pleasure from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

- stopping thought flow from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Grade K level ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️+

- number of ropes used by the master 4-7.

- eye patch ✅

- navajiri ✅

...everything in Simple

+ increased individuality of the master's approach,

+ more applied K,

+ more attention to the preparation of mjo.

The session lasts up to 120 minutes, 200 usd, consists of stages, which are described in the presentation - send on request in telegram

 plots that you are happy to be a participant in K-questionnaires and an additional participant/partner are possible in this session option.

- pleasure level from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- deprivation to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- relaxation exercises from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- the opportunity to hand over control to a master from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- multifaceted experiences of pleasure from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- thought-stopping from ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

Grade K level to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️,

- the number of ropes used by the master 6-9,

- eye patch ✅

- navajiri ✅

- and other K - chosen by the master based on the answers to the questionnaire.

everything in Simple & Light:

+ individual work with the request/s according to the answers in the questionnaire, master's time 180+ minutes, cost 300+ usd,

+ possibility of meeting with the master before the session,

+ Mjo, who have proven themselves during the preparation and Middle session can receive the Middle+ session questionnaire.

The information is available for members who past Middle level sessions

The first class is for those who want to start and progress through the course gradually or to see how K-Shibari is suitable for them. Yes, it is possible, you can practise the skills you have learnt in the first class for as long as you feel you need to. When you feel that you need the next level, take the second class and so on....

To whom it is maximally useful:

men/girls in couples and without: wishing to master a new game giving emotions and feelings; striving to diversify everyday life, to find new sensations, to learn new things in a partner - features of changes in his/her states. 

You will master:

- deep play for two;

- safety techniques;

- blindfold, understand what states it can give;

- basic elements of the Ichinawa technique: binding the chest, legs;

- the subtleties of interaction used by an experienced shibari practitioner.

Especially recommended for: 

- People with increased control, entrepreneurs, yoga practitioners, alphagravity, Osho and tantra practitioners.

Duration: 2 hours.

Locations: Canggu / Pechersk.

During the class you will learn what pleasant states and sensations come from limiting your mobility; emotions from the game.

The price includes: informative and practical part; video materials of homework; safety equipment; two Japanese ropes.

Cost of a personal lesson from 2.350 to 3.950k IDR / 5.500 to 9.300 (depends on the content of the lesson: ropes, number of models, availability of discounts).

The course is 4(8) sessions.

It is conducted for one novice Nawashi, who can be male or female.

Nawashi receives:

- techniques used by experienced shibari practitioners, revealing the facets of his partner;

- an understanding of how to lead the beloved, taking control of her for 15-60 minutes;

- male secrets allowing to live new states;

- understanding the principles of the game, becoming more free from emotional swings.

Mjo gains:

- a new depth of "dance" with her partner;

- self-discovery and cognition of himself, his own peculiarities in his hands;

- more understanding and feeling on his part.

In the first lesson you will learn:

- basic technique;

- the first male secret (for men);

- the rules of the game, which create a degree;

- eye contact and how to use it wisely.

Maximum usefulness:

Men and women who are thrill-seekers. Couples who go easy on life and know how to laugh and enjoy themselves. Those who want to discover new things in their partner, to start exploring the features and depths of each other's states.

Class time:

2-hour classes - 4,

1-hour sessions - 8

Number of ropes: up to 8

During the course you learn not only the art of Shibari, but also K techniques, at the end of the course:

- know the safety techniques,

- the rules of mjo preparation for the session,

- basic knots, and know how to use them effectively in practice,

- use the eye patch correctly,

- nawajiri,

And much more, to get information about what you will learn more request telegram

*Please note, we reserve the right to refuse you without explanation.

Information is available once you are acquainted

Dinner/tea at 19:00 on weekdays.

During dinner, you get your questions answered; become familiar with the ropes; the master will tie your handcuffs upon request.

Time: 45 minutes.

Location: Canggu/Pechersk

Cost: 500k IDR.  Or 500 ₴

Number of participants: no more than 4 people.

Sign up in advance.

How counselling works:

1. You send the issue you are concerned about.

2. The Master will review it; ask you questions; if the query can be resolved you will be notified.

3. Agreement on the time of the consultation.

4. The result of the consultation is a concrete plan for solving your question.

Consultation time: 30 minutes.

Cost: 1 800 UAH / 700K IDR.

Author of the K-Shibari narration and the Shibari.Bali project

Born in 1985 to a family of a yogi and philosopher and a musician and yogini. Since 2012 in body practices, since 2015 practices Shibari, Kinbaku and related areas, studying the impact of these practices on life; answers questions related to happiness, endocrine system and emotions. Author of psychological safety techniques. Organiser of Shibari/Kinbaku parties in Bali. In Bali for 5 years, among the students are public personalities, company owners and their spouses.

"By mastering the techniques and knowledge I have structured, you will be the one for your partner in whose hands he/she relaxes and surrenders control - it is an extremely satisfying feeling to surrender control to a loved one, not everyone is able to live it."

About myself.

"My journey began when, between the ages of 4 and 16, I realised that my family could live a much happier life if governed by principles and knew the rules for interacting with each other, I then genuinely wanted to understand and learn how to use these rules and principles for happy relationships.

I decided that the masters of such directions in which people feel extreme emotions (bondage; discipline; domination; flagellation, etc.) know more about relationships than anyone else, and so it turned out, and each of the teachers had something to learn.

From some the attitudes of jealousy and fidelity;

From others to learn the skill of the game;

From others to see details, to understand the workings of instincts and the endocrine system.

Four to bond; Discipline. 

Knowledge was assembled puzzle by puzzle, I a maximalist with the highest criteria wanted clearly art at a high level. The journey of 18 years of searching for answers to first hundreds and eventually thousands of questions.

Now there is a rich holistic picture, consisting of knowledge and skills that allows you to easily relate to what is happening and enjoy what is happening. 

Dear reader following the path of exploring yourself, your sincerity, your feelings and your partner you gain a fascination of extraordinary depth." 

The directions that are at the core of K-Shibari are:

- Shibari;

- meditation and concentration techniques Dharana, Dhiyana;

- kundalini yoga, hatha, nidra;

- Tantra;

- seduction techniques; flagellation;

- knowledge of emotional intelligence; 

- knowledge about the endocrine and chakral systems of man;

- books by US university professors, classics of world literature;

- other

The session consists of:

  - communicating and getting to know Navashi,

  - negotiation, safety techniques, discussing boundaries, stop words,

  - model preparation (includes: clothing, mental attitude, nutrition),

  - introductory tying,

  - after tying plan and technique selection, the K-Shibari process.

  - arriving in the tied state (it feels good),

  - untying, 

  - guide's departure for the model after the session,

  - tea, socialising

Approximate time:

- Simple level session - up to 1.5 hours;

- Ligth level session - 2 hours;

- Middle level session 3+ hours.

If there is such a fear, the best solution would be for your man to understand why he wants shibari.

Your man has fantasies and if he realises that through shibari he will come closer to realising them or will realise them, then success is guaranteed. 

It is vital for you as his woman to know his fantasies - otherwise you are not his muse, not his inspiration.

Every man has "kink" needs (some adventurous spirit loving risk and adventure), they go on a par with the basic ones: in food, security, fulfilment. 

1. Through shibari some of these needs are filled. 

2. Through this art it is easier to realise others, as in the bound form there is a loss/transfer of responsibility - yes many people are afraid of their desires and fantasies and this is normal in our limited and judgmental society.

The need to realise "kink" fantasies is especially pronounced in people with difficult childhoods.

A kink is a "sexual marker", a trigger or some kind of arousal element. It can be anything from a sound or smell to a particular situation or number of actors. It is often something we are afraid to talk about; by getting in touch with shibari you fill that need and feel freer afterwards.

Also K-Shibari session promotes reset, that is, if life needs to "shake up", it will definitely help you in this, as the ropes suddenly strongly affect the state of a person, models like to tell after sessions that energy comes, I explain it by the fact that the deposits of se....uual energy awaken, where we restrain ourselves, do not allow suddenly open and flow freely.

A powerful solution is a Certificate for a session, showing such a man the probability of his consent will increase by orders of magnitude.

Sessions take place in clothes, we recommend wearing gym shorts and a top. Clothes should be tight, otherwise they will get tangled in the ropes. Hair before the session should be collected so that they do not get in the way. You take off everything you can: earlobes, wrists of hands, neck, piercings.

If you want to be naked, be naked.

Shibari is unexpectedly pleasant, in this art there are special pain techniques semenawa, but they are used only on request (predisposed to about 20% of girls). 

I Alex.Keane use techniques Shibari newaza and K it is all for pleasure, care and sensuality. A good session lasts more than an hour, during this time I take you to a place where there is no control, to a place where you feel good.

As a rule, women with such fears at the end of the session share the feedback: "Yes, it was cool, I want to practice with my favourite person", because a knowledgeable master will immerse you gradually and safely. There is always a possibility to stop the session, no one will close your mouth, talking is allowed, one of the important safety rules is to "listen and hear the model"

Meet for lunch with the guide, this will be a step towards practice and a better understanding of it. 

In the process of getting to know each other, you will determine for yourself whether you are ready to go into this dance with this master. You will learn the subtleties, what he pays attention to, feel the states.

If you do not feel the inner agreement, choose another, in any case it will be very interesting and unforgettable.

Not ready yet? Go to yoga with a proven instructor (hatha, kundalini, nidra), it is good to start studying yourself with them.

Yes, in the hands of an experienced Shibari practitioner, preferably with experience in yoga, you will lose control perhaps for the first time in your adult life. Your brain will realise that it is possible and it will be easier to reach this state in the future, because you have this experience and it is recent.

If you have little trust in the world, you will lose control not at the first session, you will need a familiarisation session first, you will understand the effect, the master, yourself and then you will lose control.

Couples describe the arrival of shibari into their lives as something that kick-started a new level of relationship, but not all, you see relationships are very unique and individual. Nevertheless: there is a new object of attention, the ropes, which powerfully teases the one being tied up. 

Now the man's touches are pinpointed, teasing, fleeting, arousing desire, the woman "gives out" new states, energy. But at the same time, no session is the same as another, that is, today the session will cause passion and storm, and tomorrow will have a powerful massage effect, but in any case it will be rather deep and strong.

There are three levels, request information from the master.

Let's look at the root, where is the loss of or...zm coming from?

Let's look at an infant, he is very flexible, he breathes with his tummy (diaphragmatic breathing), he is clean. As he grows, he begins to gain life experiences and in moments of stress, struggle, violation of his boundaries, he clamps down. These clamps are well known to yoga instructors as they are in the business of relaxing them. Here observe what happens to your body when you are in a stressful situation, it clamps down. So a lot of clamps in people are in the GI tract and pelvic area. Their relaxation has a positive effect on the state during intimacy with a man.

Shibari promotes letting go of control, relaxation of the head, and as it is known or....ism occurs there.

I will say so, its depth as in ropes is rarely met, because the degree of state is very high, and relaxation is maximum.

The ability to receive it depends on your ability to trust a man, to relax in his company, to give yourself away, to enjoy life and emotions; to feel safe, to laugh. 

During a well organised binding there is an impact on all the above qualities, a powerful surge of hormones, neurotransmitters contributing to the excitement of the woman and relaxation of her head: thoughts are dissolved comes sensitivity.

Men in shibari classes learn how to: 

- to interact with a woman who has entrusted control over herself;

- to give states of mind conducive to the transfer of control;

- the ligaments that collect energy in the pelvis.

Next, you'll probably feel a surge of energy and a sense that there's been a reset, you're on your way and you'll be able to experience emotional fulfilment for another two to five days.

Self-mastery, the ability to focus and relax attention on the necessary tasks, to bring the stages to completion - this is a vital skill.

It is the advantage of shibari practitioners over other men, but only if backed up by the right life attitudes and the given intention, as there is an additional condition that disrupts his focus in the binding process - his powerful desire for the woman, while it is necessary to keep the focus on the binding technique. The ability to properly distribute attention on the model and the ropes is the master's professionalism.

- to learn how to better accept a man,

- overcome the fear of restricted mobility and feel the release of energy,

- to increase trust through acceptance,

- to better understand yourself, the peculiarities of your structure, to see your reactions to different kinds of actions on the part of a man,

- transfer control over yourself,

- For those girls/men whose sexual boundaries are wide enough, the practice will allow you to see how you can lead your partner and understand how he will feel.

It depends a lot on the reasons for its occurrence and the level of manifestation.

The binding is gradual and starts with a test, during which Mjo realises what the practice is about for her and whether she is ready to move on.

At any time she can stop the binding with a word. 

For people with this ailment I recommend K-Shibari carefully and gradually, it can both trigger symptoms and help to take a step towards freedom from this phobia.

- Fractures, dislocations, trauma.

- Mental disorders.

- Enlarged lymph nodes.

- Diseases; fever.

About hypertension, hypotension, contraindications to physical activity must be reported.

What should I do if I feel discomfort during the session?

Throughout the session your condition is under vigilant control. There is a specific language of communication between the model and the rigger and it is mandatory that you report if you feel discomfort by stopping the session:

if your hands start to get stiff;

if you start to feel pain or other unpleasant symptoms.

Lina's feedback from a shibari workshop in June 2020 in Ubud, approximate time 11am, about 20 people in the room, mini session 30 minutes:

- Firstly, I must say that my nawashi (master) is a very sensual and very professional person. You can feel it from the first seconds, because he adjusts you competently and approaches you the way I feel, i.e. a very subtle contact.

I was a few seconds away from orgasm when I was standing tied up. I was just dizzy, everything was running down my face and I felt like I was being roasted on a cauldron of some kind. It was very intense! It's a very vivid moment! It's a very vivid emotion that you experience!

Then when we moved to the parterre (tying on the floor), I started to relax more and go deeper. That is, I felt that there was an action going on around me that was taking me more and more into myself, into my sensations. It is a strong feeling that both relaxes you and excites and excites you. The spectrum of emotions from relaxation to peak, i.e. it's almost the peak of orgasm and total relaxation, when you don't fall asleep but you fall through. It's an incredible feeling!

Question from the audience:

- Is this your first time with this teacher?

Model's Answer:

- We did a short demo at a tantra day there were 15 people who were tied up for 10 minutes each.

Question:

- You didn't experience that then?

Response:

- I had some not so vivid ones, today is straight up super!

Question:

- Was the mood today? It's one thing to have 15 girls sitting around and tying everyone up like on a conveyor belt. People are sitting there watching you.....

The answer:

- I didn't think about you guys once, I honestly didn't give a shit. Alex turned me off absolutely! I wasn't here at all! I'm talking to you guys, but I'm still not here yet! I feel like I'm very slowly coming back to myself. I don't know how many minutes it's been!

Question:

- No music, no background, no voices?

Answer:

- I don't remember the music, the voices, your conversations! I don't remember anything at all! I remember being in a big, strong flow somewhere right there and I was very cool!

Phrase from the audience:

- We've noticed, we've looked at you and straight...

The model:

- I didn't hear you, I didn't see you, I didn't feel you! I was somewhere right there with this person, not even a person, but probably their soul or whatever is going on? I was in the highest possible flow!

Question:

- When was the next time you wanted to repeat this experience?

Answer:

- As soon as now! No not now, I need to get back into my body a little bit. I want to tell the girls that you should definitely tune into the practice, into trust, into sincerity and into honesty. You have to be honest with yourself. You must not play anything here. You don't have to show that you feel great and you can't really experience it, because you're holding this emotion in your head, that you have this task in your head - I have to experience this or I have to feel this or I have to trust.... You just have to open up and go into the process. No expectations. Absolutely!

I think the immediate role is played by the person who connects you. Because Alex is very sensitive, I could feel when he was breathing in my ear. I get hooked when they breathe in my ear, but they do it subtly, skilfully, when I don't expect it.

Then he does it very clearly, he feels his model subtly and that's very important. I.e. you need to be in the process and you need to be an observer, you need to feel the model not just: - Oh she will probably get excited from this or from this, as usually all women get excited from some certain points..... No be observant, observe your model.

Question:

- A lot of people expect results from how the model feels. Then what do you do it for

Response:

- Yes, it's very important when you feel when the person you're bonding with is getting high with you too!

Alex:

- That's what I was talking about, the main thing is that you get high because your masculine state is transmitted to the model. The main mistake a lot of guys make is that they try:

- Oh, let me give you a massage! Let me make you feel good! Yeah, no man! Make yourself pleasant and she is also happy when we are pleasant. And she will tune in to that state.

Question:

- You say you're very horny. How do you feel about not having sex after being aroused?

Model's Answer:

- I'll be honest guys, at one point I just wanted to be fucked hard!

Question:

- At the beginning, in the middle or at the end?

Answer:

- At what point? When you started tying my legs?

When you started to tie my legs and you started to spread them and to move them either with your hands or with feathers, i.e. a subtle sensation, but you don't feel that you are walking on a very thin edge. But I want to tell you that even after experiencing such a strong emotional outburst that didn't end in sex, I can say that it was like sex!

I now feel that I am almost back to my adequate, normal state to control myself, to talk and to feel and perceive other people around me as much as possible. I can say it was almost like sex! And I feel like I've had sex!

Question:

- You girl drove the feathers fast, but Alex drove the feathers slowly, smoothly, unhurriedly. How did you like it better? More vivid sensations with which actions?

Answer:

- If we talk about personal sensations about myself, I like differently when I am touched at different pace. It depends on my inner state at the moment, on my central nervous system. Of course slower is more sensual, i.e. slower, more sensual and not touching hard. Anything that has a very fine line that is about to break is an intrigue that is created in touching it excites even more!

You have to feel, you when you run your feathers over the model, you can see her breathing. Did you see my breathing? Because it's very important that you observe, not just petting her, just just to pet her, but you do it by observing. How she reacts and you'll realise what speed you need to take. Where you need to pet her, where you need to stop and continue somewhere else. So you have to be as observant and involved in the process as possible. Do not disconnect from the model, because we know some certain points, some flyhacks in relation to men and women to excite them, to please them. But each person is different and I think that the central nervous system a priori stands in this whole process and depends on the person. That is, a person can have a central nervous system that is very slow to accelerate and trusts slowly, comes into the process very slowly. And there is a person who quickly gets involved in the process, you have to breathe together with the model, be on the same wavelength. Alex at some moments intercepted my breath and we take a breath together, i.e. it is very important that you are included in the process.

Question:

- Did it feel like you were severely rope-tied?

Answer:

- No. Let's start with the fact that I like to get tough and Alex and I have discussed this, that he can do whatever he sees fit, going as far as some violent games.

Question:

- But that's not right for every girl?

Answer:

- I want to tell you on behalf of women that women love to be dominated. Especially if it is a strong woman with character, with a core. She will 100% like it if you are tougher, but the carrot and the stick. You don't have to strangle her like a goat..... You must realise that you are not just dragging her into this process, but you enjoy it, you want to give pleasure, you get high together with her and you do not rush her anywhere, you do not demand anything from her, like:

- "Come on, get high!

No psychological pressure, but in some moments I like to be pressed and it hurts. I'm thinking, man, I want more, I want more!

Question:

- Do your arms get stiff?

Answer:

- Your arms get stiff, but you don't think about it anymore. The bodily sensations go to the back of your mind when you give in to your feelings. You don't care whether they tie you to the bamboo behind you, put you down, hang you or do something else to you.... If you have entered the process, you are no longer here, you are no longer in the bodily sensations, they are already somehow indirectly, phantomically in you. You are already on another level.

Question:

- So you've entered into a deep trust that everything he does is normal, everything is fine, everything is under control, you can relax, you don't have to worry about anything, you've completely handed over to him the responsibility for everything that's happening here and now?

Counter question to the model:

- In control of who or what?

Questioner's answer:

- The Master who is leading. Did it feel like you handed over the responsibility for everything that happens, everything goes as if according to a script?

Model's answer:

- The choice is yours! If you want to go into the process, you have to give yourself completely. If you don't give yourself and control, you won't get to that state. Alex and I met at a tantra day, he bonded with a large number of girls and people who were there and me included. Firstly, because there were so many people, it was out of the ordinary for us, it was a first for us. I actually thought what are these ropes, who is going to tie me up, what is this even? I am a strong woman, I am used to control everything, my brain is working all the time, I was blindfolded, but I realised that by habit I was still partly in control, I was supporting my arms, legs, stomach, chest, head. And today I managed to completely let go of my body, let go of my thoughts, let go of my head. During this whole process, I don't know how long it lasted, my head was like empty and full at the same time. But I didn't have one second of control at all! For me personally, that's a victory, because it's very hard to let go!

Tie me up if you can. And so we slowly but surely got to my story of what I tried for the first time in Bali besides nails. And this ancient Japanese art of Shibari was originally used during wars to bind prisoners. The wars ended, but the art remained. And Shibari has made its way into the 18+ sexual realm. And it's not just about the pleasure the body gets, which it does.) Because if you omit penetration and caresses of nipples and genitals, the whole skin becomes one continuous erogenous zone and the sensations from touching are just off the scale. Ropes tightly squeeze the body, blood rushes, your eyes are tightly closed with a silk ribbon and it seems as if the skin itself begins to vibrate. And if we talk about the psychological aspect of Shibari, here you get no less. It's about complete trust in the "top" and your total submission. You no longer control anything, neither the pose, nor the movements, and even your sensations and orgasms you no longer control. And this is the most difficult and pleasant at the same time to give full power over yourself and your body to another person. Because, no matter how you look at it, we are all so self-made, strong and strong-willed, horse at a gallop and tell your man what socks to wear and how to kill mammoths. It is not possible to lose control for a second, because immediately the whole world will collapse and everything will go to f...fuck. And imagine that you are so strong subdued, tamed, immobilised and still deliciously caressed. Do you like the picture? If you like it and feel the pulsation in your lower abdomen, you know what seminars to go to and what art to learn with your beloved. Irinka Vladimirovna recommends! In my case, the experience was simply invaluable. My Shibari guru Alex Kin turned out to be an extremely experienced master with a huge experience in Asia. First he introduced me to the ropes, told me their names (he gave them names). Then we got to know each other. He showed me a trial binding so I could understand what it looked and felt like and in the process very gently entered my personal space, attuning with me. We breathed in unison and I felt safe in his arms. Our practice was more introductory, as I stayed in my clothes, there were people around and we did not tie me up for support in the air, and there was no sexual enquiry. But it was a cool experience and I can definitely say that I want more. The feelings of trust and total surrender of control were the best thing about this practice and I enjoyed trying on the character and being led.

My partner and I attended Alexey's trial masterclass on the island of Bali. It was the first time for us to have a real experience rather than looking at pictures and "instructional videos". Feelings are very interesting, when you are in a bound state, it is nice to feel your helplessness and controllability to the master, it is nice to relax and submit to the confident hands of an experienced rigger. However, in order to reproduce at least one of the simple tying on your own, you will need a serious enough preparation, which makes the club of shibari enthusiasts rather closed and exclusive place. But what not to do for the sake of continued pleasure, because you want to often switch off your head and dive into the complex and intricate world of your sensuality. Try it for yourself.

Shibari is a very interesting and deep practice. It allows you to open yourself, creates new facets of interaction with the world and others.

After classes and independent practice comes energy, I feel interchange. 

Increased sensitivity and determination to act at the same time.

Feedback from the girl in the moment - exceeds all expectations.

In the aftermath, when memories are brought back to the moment, emotions and feelings return.

The knowledge gained is invaluable.  Alex thank you.

I was with Alex for a session and 3 training lessons.

It was a very interesting and complementary experience - to feel what the model feels and then to learn how to be in the "leading" position.

Alex is very sensual, attentive, almost immediately goes "deep" and works from there. 

At the same time, he is open to experimentation, he makes a joke in everything. And this helped me during the session to get out of my usual "foundations" and, in fact, during this time to live "another possible life".

Thanks to Alex I have lived many new experiences, expanded my perception of me and the world and continue to work in the given direction. 

I advise anyone who wants to explore themselves better to go into experience in a session with Alex.

Thank you so much!!!!!

It was not yet half an hour after meeting Alexei and my trial shibari practice. I have already tried this practice twice, it was very deep and I have a very serious theme of sexual abuse that I had in my childhood. And I did not remember this situation, I guess my brain just erased it.

When I was immersed in this practice for the first time, it was raised, the notion of trust in men was opened to me in a new way.

Regarding the wonderful master Alexei, I want to say to all those who doubt whether to go or not, whether it will be safe and what will be and how it will be....

This is a total huge space of love, with which you can simply open up as much as possible, i.e. he goes with his focus of attention to such depths, to which it is possible, well, for me, perhaps your focus of attention is not enough for you to look at these problems.

It was amazingly great short session, in which I have already lived my judgement that this situation happened and the fear, the fear of trusting men I have at the very peak of ogresm, when I need to totally relax and this fear is blocking me to get pleasure.

It was very cool today when I was watching this and a part of this fear that was in my body was released and I let myself enjoy it! It was super high! Super cool! To feel it, to live it! So to all those who have doubts, if girls have some deep stories, some sexual unresolved problems, I think shibari is the coolest, fastest practice to show you how things are in essence, i.e. how things are in general for you.

You can endlessly read books, breathe into the uterus and explore sexuality, but for those who are ready to go deeper, who are not afraid to do it, just to be honest this is the maximum call for girls to explore themselves in this way!

What is the upside of this practice - you immediately see all your problems super unconscious and the quality of just you manifesting maximising your sexuality increases.

Alex:

- Christina was just in the ropes, was that your first experience?

Christina:

- Yeah first experience

Alex:

- Tell me about the experience? How was it for you?

Christina:

- It's definitely definitely about letting go of control because when my eyes were closed and I could only feel physically, then feel emotionally it was profound. Just letting go of control, letting everything be and only when I did that I was able to go from distrust, from some kind of fear, from feeling uncomfortable, uncomfortable to enjoyment.

Alex:

- Say, a lot of people think that this practice is about pain, that it's painful there, that it's scary there....

Christina:

- I felt it so much, imagine if you take such a soft juice packet and squeeze it out, you don't know yet what's inside, you take the packet and just squeeze it out. The ropes affected me the same way. They squeeze and that's what's inside, that's what's squeezed out. And if there's pain inside, you squeeze out the pain. For me it was about awkwardness and confusion, going into relaxation, allowing pleasure, but not pain.

Alex:

- Awesome!!! Say, what about eroticism? I.e. the facets of transcending or here many people know that this practice has an intimate aspect. What's in here?

Christina:

- For me it has an intimate aspect because as a model, I allow my body to be touched. It is a very close distance, the closest possible distance. I would like to wish those who will undergo this practice to try to concentrate as much as possible on the sensations. Not to analyse: what is it? How is it? You will have a whole life to think and analyse. Be in this moment, have this experience, whatever it is. It's all about you, not about the other person and open your heart.

Alex:

- Thank you Kristinochka for your trust, thank you for your words, for your feedback! I'll see you again.

Hey, I just want to leave a voice message thanking Alex, his work and Shibari. 

And this really comes from my heart.

Now, before meeting Alex and having Shibari sessions with him, I didn't know much about this art form. Actually, I knew nothing about it. But what I knew was that for my entire life I had fear of intimacy in particular with men.

And at the age of 29, when I arrived in Bali, I just left my nine year relationship, and I found myself incapable of physical touch and being close with another human being.

And to me, when I say intimacy, it's not just sex, sex may be a byproduct of intimacy, but for me, that is not what intimacy is. For me, intimacy is seeing into, feeling into, listening into, perceiving and understanding someone. So essentially, intimacy is to build a deep connection with another human being.

So Alex and his Shibari sessions gave me exactly the healing I needed. And I can tell you that as a woman, I felt like I was allowed to surrender, to be vulnerable, to be feminine, and to be myself in a safe space with beautiful Japanese ropes.

And Alex, as Shibari master, has incredible attention to detail and understanding of touch and safety and relaxation and play between masculine and feminine and consciousness. So if I could describe his work in three words, it would be healing art and celebration of love.

So once again, I want to thank you, Alex, personally, for what you've done for me. And I want to thank you for this incredible experience. And I truly wish other women and men to get healing and to get the same experience I did through this art form.

Shibari... Sure, we can get into terms. 

But let me tell you what it is for me, and you try to feel it... That way you'll realise how much pleasure you can give your woman. 

It's one of the most sensual and profound ways to connect a man and a woman. 

A process where, under the guidance and direction of a man, a woman is able to completely let go of control, to trust her man. 

Where the man is the best guide for the woman to understand herself and to experience true pleasure through the application of the binding technique.

It's a game of contrasts: binding - letting go. Submission - release😌

• To face my fears. And right away I will start with a very interesting topic for me - the Japanese art of tying - Shibari. Just recently I touched it. I was immediately taken over by Shibari. Unconditionally and irrevocably. Many people regard Shibari not quite as it is, attributing to this art of debauchery and lust. Personally, I don't see it that way. I look at it from a completely different angle. I regard Shibari as a kind of Meditation. For both master and model. A meditation that opens up new facets Meditation correcting and directing the body and consciousness in a new direction. I recommend everyone to touch this art. To experience this new sensation.

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I came to the practice out of curiosity, by invitation. I thought it would not be pleasant and that it would be relaxation through pain.

What was my surprise that the whole process was very pleasant!

After a few minutes, my body felt like it was in weightlessness. From the fact that it's bound on the contrary, you feel freedom. You fly far, far away) 

I am flying, and next to my body is a man who is doing everything to make me feel even more pleasurable.

It's not about S&M at all, it's about service and pleasure in its purest form. It's just a question of trust.

I would love to do this practice with my man, when he appears, because it will definitely bring the relationship to a new level....

Shibari teaches you to trust your partner and just get high from the moment. It is very energetically fulfilling, I remember it as something very tasty and pleasant😊

Shibari is definitely a cool thing that brings a bright spark to the relationship between partners! Almost all women are satisfied who agreed to shibari practice! Alex you are cool, keep it up, thank you for the training.

Review by Valentina.

This is my first introduction to shibari. I was bound by Alex. For me it became a deep psychological practice. Revisiting certain situations, re-living emotional states, increasing sensitivity of the body. A great and profound experience. Thank you for new sensations and impressions.

Hi all, did a short course on young shibarist, about half a year ago. What can I say, it's a great subject for both guys and girls. Everyone with whom I practised shibari was satisfied. Unfortunately, not many people know about the practice itself and not everyone who knows sees how far-reaching it is). Therefore, I am in favour of further popularisation of this Art.

On the continuing education thing. I liked your pitch. Very cool! I got into it and immersed myself in it completely! It's hard for me to describe it. So everything from the cafe to the feedback from the model was magical or something

In today's lesson, I enjoyed being blindfolded. It was a nice feeling. 

Pros: with closed eyes one is completely relaxed and in trust. Particularly enjoyed the brushwork and the goosebumps in certain parts of the body... the head massage to the addition of the blindfold gave a total feeling of flying away! 

Cons: the apprentice is an apprentice) he tried his best, the binding was marvellous but at some points it was painful. A little bit lacked looseness of the student, so sometimes he did not feel me and was concentrated on the ropes. 

Overall - the lesson was amazing, I feel energised.

Today was a super intense session with the student. There was a lot of new knowledge, which the student absorbed and practised very easily. His movements were more confident than the first time. You could say it worked the first time. I did not feel any discomfort. From eye contact to touch was in focus.  The student is accurate and knows how to compliment me on time, thereby disposing me. This is important. In time, when the movements are confident, the speed will come.

Pros: 

- Felt experienced, completely took control 

- when my legs were tied - completely floated away, good moments were going through my head 

- I even got goosebumps. 

-attention to the fact that sometimes it hurts when you tie them.

- There was care, not leaving him for a second.

- I liked the denouement with contrasts (then strong and fast, then slow and gentle).

- When the rope touched my legs at the ankles, my tummy. 

- The touching and stroking of the head

Cons:

- Sometimes lost contact when concentrating too much on technique